A Poem For My Husband:

Our relationship has survived many storms, but because we fought, I look at us now and see that we’ve gained more than we lost. I lost my trust for you, that may take a while to get back, but we gained a marriage that is now on the right track. The thoughts of what you did, has robbed my peace of mind, but we gained a love for one another, that not many couples find. Throughout this painful process, I lost a part of me, but I gained a new perspective on who we’re meant to be. The commitment you once made, was shattered in a short amount of time, but because God restored our marriage, we can be a light that shines. The friendship we used to have, I thought was at its best, but now we have become as one, because we passed God’s test. The sacredness of our bedroom, has been defiled by the enemy, but with the help of God, we have experienced a new level of sexual intimacy. We both have done things that were not out of love or respect, but the closeness we have now, has assured me we will never disconnect. The mistakes and bad choices we made, almost ripped us apart, but now I understand God’s perfect plan and I vow to give you the depths of my heart. The differences between us used to cause a fight and a fuss, but now we allow them to bring us together and we will never go back to who we both was. The devil will constantly remind us of our failures to try to keep us discouraged, but through prayer and the reading of God’s word, we can always be encouraged. We both thought that if we divorced our lives would be much better, but now we are so happy and in-love, we cherish each day together. Your betrayal left me hurt and full of insecurities, but God has taught me how to look past your faults and impurities. There are things we both did I wish I didn’t remember, but now the good outweighs the bad, and our lives have been changed since December. There were feelings I had inside that I wasn’t willing to show, but now that I’m expressing them, our love continues to grow. I’m so glad we gave each other another chance, and you decided to stay, may God continue to bless our marriage and lead us in His way. I love you more than ever, you are my greatest friend, I promise to be a Transformed Wife until the very end.